Who's More Likely To
Point the finger, lovingly. Each of you votes me or you in secret, then see if you agree.
What it's for: Discover how you actually see each other — not how you assume you do.
How to play Who's More Likely To
- Pick a heat level in Midnight: Warm, Hot or Bold.
- A card asks who is more likely to do something. Each of you taps Me or Partner on your own iPhone or iPad.
- Both votes stay hidden until you have each answered, then they appear side by side.
- Agree and you move on laughing; disagree and you have a very fun argument to settle. More than 250 prompts in the deck.
When to play it
Road trips, waiting rooms, and the middle of the living room when the TV's off and neither of you wants to pick a show.
Who it's good for
New couples Long-distance couples Group settings
Sample prompts and questions
Real cards from the Who's More Likely To deck in Midnight. The full deck is much larger and goes further than these.
- Who's more likely to forget where they parked the car?
- Who's more likely to practice their Oscar acceptance speech in the shower?
- Who's more likely to suggest couples therapy before there's even a problem?
- Who is more likely to be the bigger baby when they catch a cold?
- Who is more likely to laugh at their own joke before telling it?
- Who is more likely to pretend to be asleep to avoid a conversation?
- Who is more likely to keep their phone on silent mode?
- Who is more likely to save money consistently?
- Who is more likely to need reassurance in the relationship?
- Who is more likely to forget to reply to messages for days?
How to get more out of Who's More Likely To
Answer fast, then explain
First instinct is the interesting data. Deliberating for thirty seconds produces the diplomatic answer, which reveals nothing about how you actually see each other.
Let the mismatches run
A question where you each pick the other is the good outcome. Those are the moments where you find out your partner has been carrying a completely different picture of you.
Don't keep score if it gets tense
Midnight doesn't keep a tally, and you shouldn't either once a round gets prickly. On a long drive a running count adds momentum; in a sore conversation it turns a game into an argument with points.
The mistake most couples make
Reading a mismatch as an insult. "Who is more likely to forget an anniversary" is a question about patterns, not a character judgement, and treating it as one ends the round early.
Frequently asked questions
Does it work with more than two players?
No. Midnight's version is built for exactly two people, which is what lets it compare your two answers directly. For a group, read the prompts aloud and have everyone point on three.
Do we have to play at the same time?
No. Each of you plays on your own iPhone or iPad and votes sync between you, so it works on the same sofa or across time zones. The reveal simply waits until you have both answered.
What happens when we both pick ourselves?
That is the best outcome in the game. You both see the clash straight away, and it usually turns into the story of the night.
Is Who's More Likely To free in Midnight?
The four games are part of Midnight Pro. Midnight itself is free to start, and one subscription on either phone unlocks the games for both partners.
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